Millions of people seek help and advice from psychic readers every year. Majority of them have fun and pick up great insights. In fact, a few even become addicted to readings and cannot seem to give them up. However, there are also those who have a terrible time and end up hating the entire process.
What usually happens in the third case?
Most people who are not happy with their experience are quick to blame the psychic, which can be possible, especially if one encountered a fake or a fraud. However, some of these people might as well look at the mirror and point fingers at the person standing in front of them. Yes indeed – sometimes our bad experience can be something we bring about by ourselves, especially if we commit some critical mistakes during the reading process.
If you want to avoid a miserable or useless reading with your psychic, here are things that you have to remember (and definitely, avoid).
Have unrealistic expectations
Most people go in with expectations that are far from realistic. For example, they want the psychic to guess the lottery number for the following day or the name of their father’s cousin’s aunt. This unrealistic mindset will set the stage for the whole reading, and will definitely end up giving you a bad time.
Don’t look for super specific information
Just like coming in and having unrealistic expectations, looking for very specific information can be a negative thing just as well. Remember that your reading is meant to help guide you in your journey in this physical realm, so you may get helpful information, but not necessarily the nitty-gritty.
Listen to all messages, even those you don’t like to hear
Most people are guilty about this mistake, although they do not really do it on purpose. We do not just do this for psychic readings, but also do this for many aspects in our life, as we tend to shut ourselves from things that we do not want to hear. Most of the time, we already have preconceived notions about things. While there is no problem with setting specific questions, what is wrong is when you ignore messages that you hear because they are not in line with what you really want to hear.
There are times when a psychic will bring you bad news, and it would not be a good idea to ignore these warnings.
Don’t close your mind to the experience
This last tip can make or break your very first psychic experience, so it is critical that you keep an open mind while having a reading. Going in with doubts is not new, but do not close your mind entirely because it will generally give you a negative experience, where you’ll end up with more doubts and misconceptions about readings than when you started.
Have you been to a psychic reading before? What else do you think should other people remember if they want to have a positive psychic reading?