Love is a very common topic that people usually bring up during psychic readings and today, we’ll talk about dealing with breakups. Most people who see their psychic readers tend to ask: Is my partner cheating on me? Is it time for a breakup?
You don’t need to have psychic powers to tell that your relationship is failing, because the changes you see in your relationship can tell you if a breakup is imminent. Here are a few signs that you should be on the lookout for regarding breakups:
Abuse – whether in the form of emotional, mental, physical or even drug abuse is a bad sign. It tells you that your relationship is not healthy. In this case, breaking up with your partner is the best thing to do, especially if you are the one being abused.
No More Connection
They say relationships don’t survive long distances, but they may sometimes depending on how you deal with the distance or the lack of physical presence. When we talk about distance though, we aren’t just talking about physical presence, but how often they communicate and connect with you. You may be in the same city or even live in the same house, but you may feel that you aren’t connected as much anymore. Your partner may tell you many things, but if his action does not match his words, then it may tell you that your relationship is going downhill.
Do you constantly feel tired every time you are with your partner, or does the thought of being with him or her drain you? This almost often tells you that your soul is no longer at peace, and your relationship has become a source of stress for you. If this is the case, it’s time to re-evaluate your relationship and decide if it is better to breakup or work on what you have right now.
What happens after the breakup?
First things first – get rid of all the negativity brought about by your failed relationship, and that starts by stopping all contacts with your ex. This can be difficult if you have children or pets, so in this case, limit your contact to discussions related to these important matters only. If you have no real ties with your ex, cut off all ties promptly. Throw away all materials and items that belong to them as well or return them. Think of this as a cleansing ritual.
Take your time – Take time off from dating and pursuing other relationships so that you can fully heal. Use this “break time” to recover, work on yourself and move forward.
Connect with yourself – Sometimes, bad relationships cause you to lose contact with yourself. You tend to forget your needs in lieu of your partner’s needs. The time after your breakup is the best time to reconnect with yourself and invest time and effort on someone who deserves it the most – you. You can reconnect and speed up the healing by meditating and praying. I suggest doing both, as they help you gain a better understanding of the things going around you while at the same time relaxing your body and your mind.
Don’t be afraid of breaking up with someone, especially when you know it is no longer working out for you. At least you know that you can use this time to get in touch with yourself, learn from your experience and become wiser, stronger and better as you go along.